A teenager needs a say
Coaching only makes sense if a young person is willing to try it. We begin by discussing what they want to work on and what everyone is hoping for.
The aim is not simply to make a teenager follow their parents’ wishes. We look for goals that matter to them, while recognising the responsibilities parents hold.
What we might work on
- Managing expectations and pressure at school
- Recognising strengths, needs and boundaries
- Making sense of friendship difficulties
- Organising study and everyday routines
- Talking about screen time and family agreements
- Finding their feet during a period of change
Turning a thought into a next step
We explore a recurring situation and consider different ways to respond. That might involve conversation, looking at another perspective or rehearsing a difficult discussion. The pace and approach are shaped around the young person.
We check in as we go: does the goal still feel right, is the work useful and do we need to change course?
Privacy, with clear boundaries
We agree what parents will hear about and what your teenager can discuss privately. Safety comes first: confidentiality does not mean promising to keep a risk of harm secret.
Taking mental health concerns seriously
Significant withdrawal, persistent anxiety, self-harm or other serious concerns need appropriate medical or psychotherapeutic support. YONCA does not offer mental health diagnosis or treatment.