Explain what will happen next
Be clear about reliable arrangements: who will collect your child and who they can ask for help. Only promise what you can actually follow through on.
Leave room for the feeling
“There’s nothing to worry about” is well meant, but may not answer the worry. Ask what is on their mind. They can miss someone familiar and still take a new step.
Prepare one small step together
Would it help to talk through the new school journey or meet a trusted adult beforehand? Shame does not make goodbyes easier. Forced separation is not a coaching method.
Notice ongoing distress
If anxiety persists, grows or seriously limits daily life, seek professional assessment. This article cannot diagnose or rule out an anxiety disorder.